Do you believe in premarital sex?
Premarital Sex
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Posts: 0 (09/26/00 03:12:21) |
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Posts: 0 (09/27/00 09:52:17) |
yes I believe in pre-marrital sex. That doesn't mean you have to go all the way :-) but at least to test the physical chemistry between you & your partner ....
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Posts: 0 (10/06/00 14:02:00) |
there is no way that premarital sex should happen.. For two reasons, first of all it's unreligious, wether for muslims or christians.Second, I think people should save themselves for marriage to make the first night special...
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Posts: 0 (10/07/00 07:50:35) |
ya menya - i completely agree with you - the first night ofcourse should be a special night...
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seriously? | ||
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Posts: 0 (10/10/00 07:21:39) |
what if you too don't have chemistry, you will be stuck for the rest of your life with a partner that does not satisfy you and you will end up having affairs? I agree with fedzo about maybe not going all the way, but enough to see if the motor is running!
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Ofcourse no | ||
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Posts: 0 (10/16/00 02:36:58) |
ofcouse no there shold be no sex before marriage. it is immoral a sin and wrong.
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Posts: 0 (10/18/00 07:00:09) |
you now i once made this mistake and when i got married it was only after then that i notice how bid sin i had made. i want to tell you all it may seem right thing to be done, but trust me it is not
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hard to think about | ||
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Posts: 0 (10/18/00 07:27:59) |
i find it very strange to think that about two thirds of the population of some countries like Norway came from relations not marrieges.
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Wedding night | ||
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Posts: 0 (10/22/00 08:38:28) |
I got married last night and for me it was the first time - and i can not begin to tell you how precious a moment it was.... i advise all girls to wait for that one precious night - it made me really feel like a changed women.
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What!!! | ||
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Posts: 0 (11/06/00 14:13:09) |
In response to bascool, are you trying to tell me that that is the only way that you feel like a woman? If it is then I am sorry but you have a problem!!!! That should be the last thing in this world that makes you feel like a woman!!
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PLEASE | ||
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Posts: 0 (12/06/00 16:02:25) |
I HAVE DONE IT I HAVE BEEN THERE AND GOT INTO TOO MUCH TROUBLE BECAUSE OF IT DO NOT DO IT TRUST ME THE PAIN THAT YOU WILL GO THROUGH IT INCASE OF A MISTAKE IS NOT WORTH THE 10 MINUTES OF PLEASURE TRUST ME EVERYONE
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I lost my cat | ||
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Posts: 8 (12/19/00 05:56:41) |
Two days ago i lost my dearest friend kotty , she measns every thing to me i cant live with out her , i must find her of i'll kill myself !!
she's a cat not so big and not to small and she is orange and she mewo all the time !! thanks for help |
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Posts: 0 (01/04/01 19:41:09) |
I believe, it is an important thing to do, not to say that it is right. I am not suggesting to have sex with the person u ganna marry either. I am suggesting to have sex practice purpose only. how do u know that an apple taste good and another is bad, u tast both of them right? and between u and the person u ganna marry u have to have some kind of sexual act not everything but some to get the feel of the chemistry between the two of u. other wise u ganna hold it up for a long time and who knows? But i have to stress that I believe that is is wrong religious wise.
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but it is important | ||
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Posts: 0 (01/15/01 03:23:12) |
I disgaree with u ranya ....maybethis is not the only thing that makes a girls feel she turned into a women ..but it is important really important ....and you have to look also from the guy's side !
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Posts: 0 (01/31/01 13:53:55) |
I don't think anyone should participate in premarital sex because it is a sin before God. Also can you imagine if you have premarital sex with everyone you think you are in love with. You will always leave a little bit of your heart and body behind with that person when the relationship is over. Sometimes for men it can be easy to walk away but not for a woman. You will have so many memories of what happen. When you get married it will just tarnish that very special moment! That's just my opinion.
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Posts: 0 (02/21/01 11:02:42) |
Unfortunately we as Egyptians have had this stigma emebdded in our minds that any sort of physical relationship is wrong and 7aram. For those who say it is a sin before God, then let's keep in mind that there are other sins that God has ordained as 7aram as well -- but can be forgiven. Premarital sex isn't the ultimate sin, but in the eyes of the Egyptian culture, which many people unconsciously replace as religion, it is the ULTIMATE sin. I see multiple sins performed far worse than premarital sex occuring each day. For example:
Children ill-treating their parents (one of the ULTIMATE sins) Lying, cheating, back-biting, etc. (another one of the BIG sins) Over indulgence of spending/showing off, etc.... You people who just blush and shame those who believe premarital sex is wrong --- Do you stop people you see doing such activities? If not, you're a hypocrite -- another sin. I believe one should wait for the right person, maturity level, and above all else, love for the other person. But, we are only human, and we're bound to mistakes. If its such a sin, why doesn't our society chastise sexually active men? People believe that if you are "horny" that you need to get married. What about after the sex? Is he/she the person you want to spend the rest of your life with? Are they ambitious? Good parent/friend/life partner? It takes more than just sexual attraction to figure out that you "need" to get married. Anyhow, I know you all will probably shun this sort of thinking, because the way you've been raised to believe what is right vs. wrong, and I can't knock you for it. |
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Posts: 0 (02/22/01 02:16:31) |
I think love creats good sex. If you love a person, the chimistry would be right.. When you love a person you would be willing to do anything to satisfy your partner.. Therefore Premarital Sex should not happen, because if things don't work out for whatever reason, The femal partner would be left with a bad reputaion and sadly enough this is the way it is in the middle east and this is where we live. As they say, when in Rome do as the Romans do!
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I do believe!! | ||
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Posts: 0 (02/22/01 04:53:24) |
We were taught as kids that there are red lines we should never even whisper to ourselves... this subject in particular comes on top of the list... but I suppose talking openly about a subject is one way to solve it... no matter how the opinions might vary or contradict about it... still every one of us has his own way of thinking and certain backgrounds that would affect that opinion... considering premarital sex wrong just because it is a sin is absolutely wrong...I totally agree with Reality
...it should not be considered the unforgiven sin... we all go by the book... but sometimes there are exceptions.. in everything.. sit back and think...did I ever lie before... yes... did I cheat before.. maybe... did I ever back bit someone before... few times... so... I think the answer is clear... Saying as well that premarital sex is allowed to guys only would be making even a bigger mistake... talking religion wise... God's punishment for this sin is the same for both guys and girls... if we talk about the society... it's not because girls lose virginity and guys don't - I mean physically - it is allowed for guy to have sex before marriage and girls are not... well it's either allowed for both or not... because some people think... no... well I've had sex before but I'll never marry a girl who's not a virgin.. which sounds to me like absolute bullshit... and at the end of the day you can't blame them ...for this stupidity is not all their fault... the society we're living in had a huge role in that...anyways... I'm not saying that it's right... but... it's not fatal... and all what I'm asking for is... people.. try to give it a second thought and make sense out of your talk... and as well never ask except for what you can give back!!! |
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Posts: 0 (02/22/01 09:56:57) |
I agree with people saying it is forbidden from religious point of view but I can not imagine to marry someone I do not know if I'm gonna like the way we touch each other, what if she did not like my way, do we have to suffer forever and when get frustrated turn into cheating which is better I agree that man and a woman must test their physical chemistry and they have to chose the way to do it.
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Posts: 0 (02/25/01 10:25:47) |
the only reason i would not engage in premarital sex is the fact that it is forbidden by religion and considered one of the greatest sins we can commit as muslims,,although if it weren't i would definitely go ahead and do it,,for the sake of pleasure and getting intimate with the person i would hope to marry..
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Posts: 0 (02/28/01 07:47:41) |
Gino: Finally, someone who understands.
In any case, my comments are not meant to "excuse" any person from their responsibilties and/or consciousness. The points I made about premarital sex are just one in a slew of opinions I have. The thing that we need to do is to think "Why?". Why do we live double-standards and as hypocrites? Why not think outside of the box that was created for us? Why oblige ourselves to socio-moral standards that were after all created by human's -- imperfect just like us. I wish to see everyone in Egypt think and live by their own standards and rules. Without inhibitions. Take this as you like, whether you wish to be a devout clergyperson or finally do what ever the hell you've always wanted to do. All in all, you are responsible for your actions. We must all claim full ownership of what we do and how we do it. Who are we to judge the person in front of us, when indeed, we aren't the judges? As Gino stated: never ask except for what you can give back!!! Bravo... |
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